The Law of Listening

Listening while you read the paper, watch television, or work on the computer is not listening. Listening with your eyes, attention, and heart is listening.

The Law of Apologizing

A genuine apology communicates that you care enough about the other person to admit when you are wrong and to try not to do it again. Apologizing is not giving in; it's giving your heart.

The Law of Appreciating

Appreciation can be as simple as "I liked it today when...." or "thank you for...." Simple, yet powerful.

The Law of Anticipating

It's a human need to have something to look forward to. When you look forward together, you draw closer as a couple.

The Law of In-Laws

Thank the in-laws when you can. In-laws may be very challenging but they also were responsible for creating the person with whom you fell in love.

The Law of Compliments

Saying something nice about your partner's dress, shirt, and haircut are all nice things. You can go farther with: "I really like the way you handled that situation." "I'm glad I am with you."

The Law of genuine Interest

Show genuine interest in your partner. You show genuine interest when you demonstrate that you've been paying attention to the other person.

The Law of Touch, Hold, Caress

A potentially fun law. Everyone needs to be touched. That one small gesture can contribute to a great deal of healing in a relationship.

The Law of Knowing the Dreams of Your Partner

It's even better still when you know someone's dreams and contribute to having those dreams come true.

The Law of Ask Questions

Asking questions shows genuine interest in another person. It compliments and honors them.